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Wednesday, February 27, 2019

Where Are We Wednesday - St. Anthony's Monastery




 



Here in Arizona we suffer through hotter than hell summers. But we are rewarded with the most beautiful winters, springs and falls. It is at those times that I like to enjoy the ability to travel to the southern parts of the state without burning up. So many people think of Arizona and picture cactus and tumbleweeds. But every once in a while this great state will surprise you with beautiful lakes, rivers and lush oasis'. Today I would like to introduce you to one of those places.


 St. Anthony's Church



St. Anthony's Monastery is an oasis located just outside of Florence, Arizona. It was started by 6 monks back in 1995. I couldn't believe it was that new! My friend and I started our road trip from the Phoenix area about mid morning and arrived at the monastery just before lunch time. It is free to tour the grounds here. But there are some strict rules to abide by. Such as, women must wear a head scarf, long sleeved shirt and a floor length skirt as well as socks and shoes. If you are wearing sandals, you must also wear socks. Men must wear long sleeved shirts and long pants. The same footwear rules to men as to women. There is no loud talking and no loud laughter. This is a working monastery and the monks are going about their business while you are there. 

Stasidia (Tall seats)


There are no pews in the churches. They stand during the services in the tall seats which line the walls. They are beautifully carved. The woodwork in these churches is absolutely gorgeous. The detail is amazing. If the monks do get tired of standing they are able to also sit in these seats. 


Brass Chandelier
 
 
 No electric lights are used in the churches. All of the churches on the property have the dome sky-lights and brass chandeliers. The candles on the chandeliers are lit on major feast days. As you meander through the lush grounds the churches get smaller and smaller. And you notice the chandeliers get smaller as well.
 
      Main courtyard      
 
 
                                 
Fountain near St. George's Chapel

 Beautiful fountain among palm trees


Pathway to St. Demetrios' Chapel
 
  

 This monastery grows a lot of their own food. They have orchards of fruit trees and vegetable gardens. Everything was so beautiful. The sky was the most beautiful blue. The pathways were kept cool by the many water fountains and the shade from the many trees. I could have stayed the whole day wandering the grounds. Unfortunately, you have to be out by 2pm. The monks have services at 2:30.



St. Demetrios' Chapel
                                                                                                                       



                                                         Fountain of the Cross

After spending over an hour touring the grounds and spending time in each of the chapels we decided to head toward Florence for lunch. We stopped at LB Cantina. They brought out the chips and salsa and we were in heaven. The chips were warm and crunchy and the salsa was just the right amount of spicy. My friend ordered shrimp tacos and I had fish tacos and we shared with each other. They were very good but were even better with some salsa on them.

This was such a fun day. St. Antony's Monastery was such a pleasant surprise. But I think it is definitely something that should be done in the winter or spring. Summer would be unbearable for me. Especially having to wear so much clothing.

If you are looking for something to do that is a little out of the ordinary, then this is it. And it's free. Just the cost of gas and lunch. 


 

Thursday, August 25, 2016

Back to schoo...zzzzzzz



The kids are back in school and at our house we have settled back into that school year routine. And that means early mornings, homework afternoons and negotiating bedtimes. I was never a stickler for bedtime routines during the summer. We're all night owls so it never failed that my kids got their days and nights turned around. For many years I worked the graveyard shift. So if they slept during the day, then I was assured to get good sleep. But alas, the end of summer would arrive and the first day of school would loom large, letting me know that my night owl schedule was going to be revamped. Luckily it only took about a week to get my little cherubs straight again.



About a week before school I started the schedule. If they were sleeping all day I would get them to do a 24 hour day. I would keep them up all night and all day and they would be ready for bed on the second night. But of course, they would be exhausted and want to sleep all day again. I would only let them sleep until about 10am. Then I made sure they went to bed by midnight on the third day. Day four I would wake them at 9am and have them go to bed at 11pm, and so on. By the time school started they were back on a "normal" schedule. But sometimes it takes a little more.



My youngest started running late in the mornings. He always seemed tired. And yet I know he was in his bed, teeth brushed, lights out by 10pm. What was the deal? I found out that he was texting and face timing a friend of his. Well that's an easy fix, right? They say you shouldn't sleep with your cell phone next to your bed anyway. Something about cell phones emitting electromagnetic radiation. So I set up a charging station in the kitchen. Everyone could plug in their phones and let them charge all night. They're easy to make. I found this one on http://www.drivenbydecor.com/2014/03/family-charging-station-usb-outlet-charger.html






However, a little more was needed. Even though they were going to their rooms and getting in bed, they were having a hard time falling asleep. So besides taking the phones out of their rooms, all electronics had to be shut down an hour before bed. Oh you should have heard the complaints and arguments. Seriously though, they need to be able to let their brains wind down. "But what are we going to do for an hour?" Well, how about getting everything ready for the next day. Make sure all homework is in the backpack. (I can't even tell you how many times homework was done and then left on the counter.) Lay out tomorrow's outfit. Is everything clean? No holes in the jeans? And then the best part. Read a book. I read to my kids every night when they were little. Now I think it's important that they read on their own a little every night. 

None of this guarantees a hassle free bedtime. But these things have helped to regain the school year schedule and allowed my kids to get a good night's sleep. Now if only I can stay on a schedule. 

Wednesday, August 3, 2016

Where are we Wednesday

HISTORIC GILLESPIE DAM BRIDGE


Gillespie Dam Bridge is 1,662 feet long
 
Today was the first day of school for my youngest. And since I was awake and it was a beautiful morning, my oldest and I decided to take a little road trip. Not too far from our house is the town of Arlington. There are about 200 people living there. It is very tiny. They even have a tiny little post office. It didn't take us very long to get there. And yet you pass by so much. Mostly agriculture. Fields of alfalfa and cotton. A couple of dairy farms. Mountains off in the distance. All covered by a beautiful blue sky and cotton ball clouds. And it was still pretty early in the day so the thermometer hadn't reached 100 yet.




We came upon this beautiful steel truss bridge. Turned out this was a historic bridge built in 1927 as a federal aid project. It crosses the Gila River on Old Hwy 80 between Arlington and Gila Bend. 



I love old bridges. Well, let me clarify that. I love to look at old bridges. This one is very narrow and very rusted and I honestly wasn't sure it could be crossed. But a couple of cars went by and didn't seem to have a problem. As I slowly entered onto the bridge, a large semi truck began his traverse from the opposite end. I don't know if he was just a naturally courteous driver, or if he saw my white knuckles and the fear on my face, but he slowed way down and his right bumper hugged the side of the bridge as I passed him. 

Gillespie Dam from the bridge

Now, there's a joke that says "You know you live in Arizona when you no longer associate bridges or rivers with water". This bridge is one of the exceptions to that. The Gila River runs under this bridge. And since we've had some heavy rains the past couple of days there is actually water in it. There used to be a dam near the bridge built by Frank Gillespie in 1921 to supply water to his ranch. In 1993 there were unusually heavy rains and the dam was breached. The Gila River is now free to run through the remains of the dam.   



Remains of Gillespie Dam. 


If you are a history buff, enjoy bridges, or just want to get out of the house, then I would recommend a road trip to Arlington. And if you're a bird watcher, you won't be disappointed either. Besides the requisite turkey vulture in the Arizona sky, there were plenty of white herons and other smaller birds hanging out at the water's edge. There really isn't a place for a picnic or anything like that, but if you're coming from Phoenix, you could continue West to Gila Bend and stop in at the Space Age Restaurant or Sofia's Mexican Food. I really enjoyed the area and it was definitely worth the trip. So if you're looking for a little adventure, hit the road and check this out. 



 

Tuesday, August 2, 2016

I'm not ready for back to school!






This summer seemed to pass a little slower than expected. I'm not complaining. This was a great summer. I got to take a 2 week long road trip with my teenage son. We visited 8 states and got to visit with family and friends. It was wonderful. I know the time is coming when he won't want to hang out with me. And traveling with him was so much fun. He's a great photographer. He can take amazing pictures out the window of a moving vehicle and make it look like time stopped just for him. 


Long lonely highway from Oregon to Washington

So many of my friends are happy about back to school. Glad to get the kids out of their hair. Glad to get back on a "normal" schedule. But not me. I like being able to sleep in and not have to take them to school. I like being able to spend time with them. To not have to rush from school to other activities. To go on impromptu adventures and not have to worry about getting home late. My youngest is going to be a Junior in high school. How can this be? He's my baby! I want time to slow down. 


Welcome to Coeur d'Alene Idaho

The whole "back to school" thing has changed a lot since my kids were little. My youngest has a laptop supplied by the school. They don't write anything down. That has taken a lot of the fun out of "back to school". I don't get to shop for pencil holders, pens, notebooks. You know, the best part of "back to school". 


  Viva Las Vegas

He's doing his laundry and loading his laptop into his backpack as I type this. All of a sudden I don't remember his first days of elementary school. Junior High was a blur. Time passes much too quickly. Here stands a man 6 inches taller than me. He's wondering why I'm looking at him misty eyed. He'll have his driver's license in a couple of months. Maybe next summer he'll take me on a road trip.

Friday, April 8, 2016

Friends Friday - Guest blogger

Happy Friday friends! I love Fridays. Even though I don't have a normal Monday through Friday job, there's still something fun about Friday.

Speaking of "normal" jobs. I have a guest blogger today whose job is anything but. Her name is Kelli Bedway and she is a 911 dispatcher in Arizona. She's been telling cops where to go for about 20 years. It's a job that can really take its toll on you. Keeping healthy is important in order to help your body deal with the stresses of the job. I've asked Kelli to share her thoughts on a paleo diet. Her recipe at the end sounds super yummy!






 I’m a sugar addict.  That is the first step to recovery, admission.  Right?? I learned this about myself about 3 years ago. I always would joke about being addicted to sugar, but then I had an article pop up in front of me that said, “Are You Addicted to Sugar?”.  I clicked on it and what I read was shocking.  

Our brains react to sugar the exact same way they react to cocaine.  The way our brains make our bodies crave cocaine is exactly the same as when our brains make our bodies crave sugar.  Whoa…that hit me hard. I truly am a sugar addict.  This is no longer a joke.  I have a family history of diabetes and heart disease and I sometimes would get hypoglycemic (low blood sugar).  That is scary stuff.  I don’t want to be dependent on insulin for the rest of my life if I can prevent it. 


I am not really a research type person, but I started reading articles and books on how to combat sugar addiction.  To make a VERY long story short, I learned that chemicals in our food are killing us, sugar is very bad and wheat is not good either. My youngest sister told me to research Paleo. 


The more I read about Paleo, the more overwhelmed I became, but I also knew that was the path I needed to take for my body.  Everybody is different.  Paleo is not for everyone, just like being vegetarian or vegan is not for everyone.  I started on the path to Paleo.  It was very hard to kick the sugar habit.  I truly mean it when I say this, I went through some serious withdrawals kicking the sugar habit.  Just like a drug addict, I had the shakes, I craved it so badly and I was sick.  Ridding my body of those toxins I took into my body was not easy for sure, but after about 3 weeks, I started to feel better.  It was the same with the chemicals.  Also like some drug addicts, I fall off the wagon.  I see a piece of chocolate or decide I need to eat a tortilla and it is all over.  I eat bread, sweets and chemical filled processed food.  After several weeks of that, while in my food induced coma, I realize what I have done and I have to start all over again.  The key is, I do start over again because I remember how good it feels when I eat the right food. I lost 35 pounds eating Paleo and had a lot more energy. When I fall off the wagon I gain it all back and I feel sluggish and tired all the time. 


I will break this down as simple and general as I can.  Paleo is also called the caveman diet.  I don’t like that it is called a diet because it’s not a diet, it truly is a way of life.  It is changing the way you eat…forever.  The premise is to get back to eating the way cavemen ate.  They didn’t have sugar or chemicals then.  They were hunters and gatherers.  So the foods that are Paleo are grass fed and hormone free meat, nitrate free pork, free range and hormone free chicken and eggs from free range chickens, seeds, nuts, veggies and some fruits.  In other words, basic.  No sugar, no grains, no legumes (including peanuts because they are not nuts, they are legumes), no food dyes, no chemicals.  There are so many books and websites out there with amazing recipes to help be creative.  That is how I got started, now I have learned how to modify my favorite recipes to make them paleo. 


No sugar is for obvious reasons, sugar is BAD! And by the way, so is artificial sweetener.  The very words artificial is the dead giveaway.  Also, those artificial sweeteners make you crave sweet even more.  Why can’t we have grains?  That goes against every version of the food pyramid out there.  The simplest way to say it is, grain is not the same as it used to be.  At the end of WWII there was a serious food shortage and people in Europe were starving.  Scientists found a way to modify wheat and other grains like corn, to make them grow faster so they could feed more people much quicker and they did it with chemicals.  Now, there are very few places in the world that don’t modify their grains.  It is filled with pesticides and chemically modified to make it grow faster.  Because of that, more and more people have a gluten intolerance and food allergies.  Why no legumes?  Our bodies don’t digest legumes well and that is why when we eat beans, we have more gas. Some articles say that dairy is not Paleo and others say it is.  My feeling is, if your body can handle the dairy, then go ahead and have it, in moderation.  Just make sure it is full fat dairy because the process of taking the fat out of dairy is not good.  Also, beware, dairy has sugar, which is why we consume so much dairy.  When I eat cheese, I try to eat all natural like Tillamook brand.  They are a farm that has grass fed and hormone free cows so their cheese is natural. 


Organic is very expensive, so if you can’t eat organic, at least eat natural.  Shop the outer edges of a grocery store.  The produce aisle and the meat aisle.  Sometimes you can venture into the inside aisles, but be sure to read the labels on the food.  If you don’t know what an ingredient is or can’t pronounce it, then don’t buy it. Eating right shouldn’t be more expensive, but sadly it is.  I shop for my produce at the farmer’s market.  I can get a lot more for my money. So many foods have sugar in them, so if you have to buy something that has sugar, just make sure the amount is minimal.  If sugar is in the first 5 ingredients, don’t buy it.  Example, Nutella’s very first ingredient is sugar.  That means the sugar content is very high. That is why it is best to make food yourself instead of buying it premade.  


I recently fell off the wagon again and I am trying to get back on.  Someday I will get on that wagon and stay on.  The way my body feels when I’m on the wagon is amazing.  If you decide to go Paleo, just be sure to do your research and happy healthy eating!


I love food and my food has to taste good.  So one of my favorite meals is super easy and good for you.  I buy Kroger brand spaghetti sauce.  I think it is called private selection.  It is in a nice jar with a black label. It is all natural ingredients, nothing scary.  I dice up some nitrate free kielbasa and brown it up.  I add the spaghetti sauce and add a bunch of veggies to that.  Veggies like mushrooms, olives, zucchini, bell peppers, tomatoes and whatever else I have in the fridge.  Cook that until it’s hot and then eat.  If you put enough veggies in it, then it is thick and chunky and you don’t even miss the pasta.  You also get 1 to 2 servings of veggies in one meal and it was SUPER easy which is the only way I cook!  Enjoy!

Monday, April 4, 2016

Bee nice!



The weather has been wonderful here in the Valley of the Sun. It's been fluctuating between the mid 70's to high 80's and will reach 95 degrees this week. And that has brought the return of my little friends to my backyard. 
I first saw them last year. Well, I really saw the birds. Quite a few birds actually. They kept swooping down to a small retaining wall separating some plants from my pool. I thought it was really odd behavior. And then I saw that they were snatching little bees that were flying around my lime tree. Is that normal? I kept watching, and those darn little bees were crawling in between the blocks of my retaining wall. They weren't aggressive. And they are very small. They just kept about their business of going out of the retaining wall, buzzing up to the lime tree and returning to the spaces between the blocks. I contacted two local bee keepers and they said because of the location next to the pool, they didn't want to extract the bees due to the possibility of ruining the wall and/or getting a lot of debris in the pool. Unfortunately, what they both proposed made me a little sad. They both said I should probably just spray a bug killer into the cracks in the evening after the bees returned to their "home". They weren't really bothering anyone. But it is a little unsettling with so many of them right there by the pool. Nobody wants to go swimming. I may try to contact another bee keeper. 
Anyway, this is the time of year when bees are very active. Here in Arizona we have a lot of Africanized honey bees. And every year there are reports of people and animals being attacked and sometimes killed. Those bees are known for protecting their hives and are relentless in their pursuit. So there's no wonder people are afraid. Sometimes people call 911 in a panic over a swarm of bees that have collected on a mail box, a street sign or tree limb. That is not always a cause for alarm.


Bees usually swarm because they are looking for a new home. They like space. So when their hive starts to become crowded, a group of bees will take the queen and go looking for a new place to set up residency, leaving the other bees behind to raise a new queen. They will usually fly to a spot not too far from their original hive and a few scouts will take off in search of the perfect home. Upon their return they each dance their home's description and try to get the other bees excited about seeing it. Whoever does the best dance, wins. This whole process may take a couple of days. During this time they are not very active and not likely to attack. Walk calmly away and if possible, let them be. No need to call anyone as they will be gone soon. Unless they are swarming on your car and you need to be somewhere. But be mindful. If there is a swarm, then there is likely a hive nearby. Maybe someplace you don't really want one. Like somewhere on your house.

So don't panic. Bee nice. Bee calm. And let them find a new home. 

Monday, March 28, 2016

Meatless Monday - Guest blogger

I have a guest blogger today. Her name is Patt Ficere. She is a very dear friend of mine. And she is a vegetarian. I have thought about being a vegetarian for years. But I think I put too much pressure on myself and my attempt fades quickly. So I asked my friend to give me some insight on her journey to eliminating meat. I hope you enjoy. Her recipe at the end looks scrumptious!



Vegetarianism  is the practice of abstaining from the consumption of meat (red meatpoultryseafood  and the flesh of any other animal.  It can also include abstaining from by-products of animals (clothing, etc.)
Vegetarianism can be adopted for different reasons – respect for the animals/animal rights, religious beliefs, ethics, etc. Other motivations for vegetarianism are health-related, political, environmental, cultural, aestheticeconomic or personal preference.
There are varieties of the diet as well: an ovo-vegetarian diet includes eggs but not dairy products, a lacto-vegetarian diet includes dairy products but not eggs and an ovo-lacto vegetarian (also known as lacto-ovo) diet includes both eggs and dairy products. A vegan diet excludes all animal products, including eggs, dairy, beeswax and honey and animal products such as leather. Semi-vegetarian diets consist largely of vegetarian foods, but may include fish or poultry, or sometimes other meats, on an infrequent basis.  A vegetarian who does eat fish or poultry could consider meat as mammal flesh.
There is an assumption that vegetarians do not get enough of the proper nutrients in a vegetarian diet.  It is true that vegans can have particularly low intake of vitamin B and calcium, but they can remedy this by eating more collard greensleafy greenstempeh and tofu (soy).  However, high levels of dietary fiber, folic acid, vitamins C and E and magnesium and low consumption of saturated fat are all considered to be beneficial aspects of a vegetarian diet.   
“On average, vegetarians consume a lower proportion of calories from fat (particularly saturated fatty acids), fewer overall calories, more fiber, potassium, and vitamin C, than do non-vegetarians. Vegetarians generally have a lower body mass index. These characteristics and other lifestyle factors associated with a vegetarian diet may contribute to the positive health outcomes that have been identified among vegetarians.”
Dietary Guidelines for Americans, 2010 – A report issued by the U.S. Department of Agriculture and the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services.

I didn’t spend my childhood thinking I would become a vegetarian when I grew up.  I was raised in a family where you had a salad, some type of meat, a veggie dish and some other side dish at our family supper.  Plus, being a Midwest girl, every newscast featured the latest hog and beef reports – that was our normal news.  I grew up in a farming community and, although we didn’t actually farm, we lived on a farm.  Most of my friends were farmers and “play time” consisted of feeding/tending the livestock.  One of my sisters married into a farm family and she has been a proud Iowa farmer’s wife for the last forty-two years.  A visit to their home consisted of helping with chores.  They raised cattle and hogs, for both business and personal use.  Whether it was sitting down to breakfast with eggs and bacon or dinner with roast beef, it was a common occurrence for one of their kids to ask, “Who are we eating today?”  For me, to hear “Oh, it’s Susie or Bob” or whatever cow or hog had been sacrificed for the family meal, was quite unsettling for me.  I started questioning what I was eating and why.

But, the biggest a-ha moment came when I got extremely ill after eating a hamburger when pregnant with my daughter.  Some could argue that the pregnancy made me sick and there is some truth to that, but it just cemented the idea of making some changes.  Of course, I needed to keep my nutritional needs on track during the remainder of my pregnancy in order to deliver a healthy baby and I did.  However, I started decreasing my animal products during this time.  I gave up pork right away and gradually weaned myself off of beef (which, in Iowa, is tantamount to renouncing my citizenship).  The next steps were giving up chicken and fish.  For a long period of time, I also gave up eggs and honey.  The Vegan life wasn’t for me because I wore leather shoes and carried leather purses.  I’ve settled into the Lacto-ovo vegetarian eating choice: I do eat food with eggs, milk (cheese) and honey.  
I’ve been asked why I became a vegetarian and there were several factors that led to my decision - health-related, political, environmental, cultural and aesthetic.  But the simple reason is that it was my personal preference, I didn’t want anything to die in order for me to eat it.  I know, I know…the circle of life and natural order and all of that.  But, in a society where we have so many choices, my individual eating choices are just that…my choices.  It was my choice, I’ve never forced it on anyone.  I have never been a Militant Vegetarian but it seems to bother more people than I could have imagined. I have received some quite harsh criticism, including being blamed for the failing family farm business!  I still prepare meat dishes for family and friends.  And, I never attack anyone for eating meat or for any other cuisine choices.
It’s not always easy.  Eating at restaurants is a challenge, salads can be boring.   Sometimes, you are tempted to order a fried vegetable, just to get something substantial.  However, avoid these.  You also need to find out how the food is prepared…cooked with lard, etc.  You’d be amazed at how many restaurants cook a veggie burger right next to a beef burger.  I do have to make sure I am getting my nutrients other than animal-based food products.  That’s not always easy, but choosing to be a vegetarian means you also choose to be diligent in taking care of your body.  But, for me, the benefits far outweigh the drawbacks.  I am a three-time breast cancer survivor.  Five years ago, I was diagnosed with a rare immune system disease (nothing you do to get it, nothing you can do to prevent it) and I know my healthy eating has helped me in my survival.  Doctors won’t tell you that you have to eat meat to survive, but several of my doctors have said my vegetarian choices have contributed to my survival.   My skin is healthier, my hair shines and I feel better.  And, when I have to go through the dreaded prep for a colonoscopy, I have a much easier time at it than my meat-eating husband!
It’s not always easy, but it is my choice.


Penne with Poblano Chiles, Corn, and Cilantro Cream
Penne-with-Poblano-Chiles-Corn-and-Cilantro-Cream
Serves 4
30 minutes or fewer
Can’t find poblano chiles? Use green bell peppers instead, and spice up the sauce with minced jalapeño chiles or 1/4 cup prepared green salsa.
  • 1 cup (packed) fresh cilantro leaves
  • 1 ½cups thawed frozen corn, divided
  • ⅓ cup whipping cream
  • 1 clove garlic, peeled
  • 1 ½ tsp. ground cumin, divided
  • 8 oz. penne
  • 1 Tbs. olive oil
  • 2 poblano chiles, halved, seeded, and cut crosswise into ½-inch strips
  • 1 medium onion, sliced (1 ½ cups)
  • ¼ cup crumbled queso fresco
1 | Purée cilantro, 1/2 cup corn, cream, garlic, and 1/2 tsp. cumin in mini food processor. Set aside.
2 | Cook penne in large pot of boiling salted water according to package directions. Drain, reserving 3/4 cup cooking liquid.
3 | Heat oil in large skillet over high heat. Add chiles and onion, and cook 10 minutes, or until onion browns. Stir in remaining 1 cup corn and remaining 1 tsp. cumin.
4 | Add penne and cilantro cream to poblano-onion mixture in skillet, and toss to coat. Add enough reserved cooking liquid by 1/4 cupfuls to moisten. Season with salt and pepper, if desired, and sprinkle with queso fresco.


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